Why does love hurt so much?

Uncategorized Sep 17, 2021

Why does love hurt so much?

In ancient Egypt, the Trinity was a very common concept. As Christians, we only think in terms of a trinity of the creator as Father, son, and the holy spirit. As a science formula of the neters it actually applicable to daily life in understanding how we can operate mentally. Also as a way to diagnose our interactions within our relationships.

Scientifically a relationship has to be established between opposing (dual) forces.  One becomes two and simultaneously a third aspect is formed that has to reconcile the opposites. That third aspect is the relationship. It reconciles the opposites.

That third aspect isn’t tangible and can birth new relationships because it is in constant reformulation depending on the opposition.


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Let me explain below.

So, why does love hurt so much? So many fear being hurt because they are afraid to be vulnerable. Being vulnerable is the possibility of experiencing that which you fear the most. The fear is of the pain that can come with opening yourself up and bearing your soul to another person.

You put your heart in their hands and they have the ability to crush it, squeeze the life out of it all because you revealed the inside of you to them.

You may be in love with the idea of being in love but live in fear of being hurt. So you live your life attempting to never be vulnerable. If you add on top of that a person with low self-esteem, low self-worth who feel unworthy of love then you have a prescription for a person that will sabotage their relationships.

Book quote six pillars of self-esteem


With the brand of religion that I grew up with one of the foundations of belief is that we were only worthy of Gods love because of his grace and mercy to an undeserving wretch.

Consider ideas like this that are at the foundation of broken relationships throughout communities that hold those beliefs.

Spiritual Science is the cure

The idea I expressed about being vulnerable is a basic Kemetic science idea called the trinity. Yeah, I know as a Christian you were taught the trinity was something to worship. In actuality, it's part of a deeper science that can aid you in navigating through life's pitfalls.

Your experience is the symbolic metaphor for a universal principle. That may sound detached and sterile. But it will help you through the question why does love hurt so much?why does love hurt so much

We consider the idea of the trinity divorced from our daily lives. The ancients understood these concepts on a deeper scientific level and expressed them in ways that we now read as scriptures and deeply held religious concepts. Again science may sound sterile, but it is about the method of working through these ideas on a practical level in your life.

Religion and lack of personal responsibility

Society has lost the meaning behind the ideas and what wisdom the ancients were trying to impart because of the overlay of religion. So much religion is about handing the responsibility of your personal and conscious development to an imaginary being that will do the work for you.

The ancient Egyptians had no such belief and a deeper look at the science will reveal that your deepest most intimate and personal fears are paradoxically the most universal to everyone. One of those is the fear of rejection.

It takes courage to love. It takes courage to be vulnerable and live with the opposite possibility of being hurt to your core. fear of being hurt

But the reward for that courage is experiencing the deepest most gratifying love you will ever know in a lifetime. Those deep experiences will also travel through other lifetimes and connect you on a soul level.

Because love and fear are opposite ends of the same experience when you hold on to one you block the other. Because they are opposites one CANNOT exist without the other, but also they cannot exist in the same experience simultaneously. Like a seesaw one side has to be up and the other down. When you shield your heart with fear you block love.Love and duality

It's science. This is the spiritual science of Kemet/Egypt. If you are are not experimenting, observing, and practicing it's not science, it's wishful thinking. the idea of experimenting and observing is what I meant by science earlier in the post. Not to sterilize it, but to bring to the forefront practical application. What methods are you using to develop yourself and grow consciously? How are you developing your spiritual esteem?

When I ask how are you developing spiritual esteem this is why. Developing esteem is always done through experience. You cannot experience true love by reading romance novels. You have to have a partner that is going through the experience with you. In other words, true love is experiential.

You develop esteem by the experience of recovering from a broken heart and learning to love again. If you fear being hurt you paralyze yourself. If you avoid getting into relationships you stunt your ability to grow and develop true self and spiritual esteem.

You may get into relationships but because of your fear you are insecure. The insecurity shows up in the form of negative expectations.  you assume that the person you are in a relationship with will cheat. You accuse them with no proof because of your insecurity. You assume they will reject or abandon you. So you put up a wall of fear that blocks the possibility of deep satisfying love.

book quote six pillars of self-esteem

Understanding the Trinity is a way to help you understand the components of building true long-lasting relationships. You have to become more of a scientist than a librarian.

If you are not being a scientist, you are doomed to be held captive by the fears that will never be illuminated from experience and the inability to observe from within. That's what being religious does for you. It keeps you in the dark without ever having to take responsibility for your own behaviors.

The answer to why does love hurt so much?

Why does love hurt so much? Because you had the courage to be vulnerable. You had the courage to face and explore the fear of being hurt. Courage or vulnerability is the third component of the love/fear duality. Courage or vulnerability is the relationship between the opposing emotions of love and fear that reconciles them in some intangible way.

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They have to be experienced in order to truly know what they are. You have to go through the pain of hurt in order to gain the experience and esteem to know that you can recover and love again. The pain gives you the courage to be vulnerable and the esteem to know that you can live with and through the possibility of being hurt again.

But you have to have the courage to choose to experience the height of love rather than wallow in the valley of fear. The greater the vulnerability the deeper the love you will experience. But without reconciliation through vulnerability, the experience lacking.

The two poles are always reconciled. There is no experience of any kind without the third component. That trinity is always present within our experience or there is no experience.

Let's look at the recovery from heartbreak another way. One of the biggest deterrents for loving fully is the fear that if you open up and get hurt you can't recover from heartbreak. Know that you will survive. You will get through this pain. It's part of the journey of gaining that esteem for yourself.

Your recovery is part of a deeper concept the ancients named Ausar. The science of it is the cycle of birth, death, and resurrection. As Christians, we were taught it as the resurrection of Jesus.

In Kemetic science, it was the concept of one aspect of yourself or consciousness dies and the new aspect is reborn. This was expressed biblically in John 10:30, "I and the Father are one."

In other words, as one aspect dies another is reborn. Death, rebirth or resurrection are two sides of the same coin.

It is the relationship of the seed, soil, and fruit; It is the Neters of Ausar, Auset, and Heru applied practically in physical life. As a religious idea of worshiping the trinity, the power and application of it were obscured.

The vulnerability is the soil or medium in which love or fear grows within the relationship.

From the beginning, that person birthed a desire within you. Desire is another component (fruit) of another trinity that develops from the meeting of two people. heartbreak can be the fruit of a break in trust. Now you must have the courage to be open to love again. That will be the resurrection from the death of the old relationship.

The point to understand here is the Trinity is not one static concept as we were taught in Christianity. It is fluid in that depending on the situation new resolutions are constantly birthed from the tension of two opposites.

It's understanding the science that will help you rise above the fears and vibrate at higher levels. You now have knowledge that can bring wisdom in your journey. Not just a superstitious belief that faith in some being, outside of you, will magically heal your pain. You have the power and responsibility to do that for yourself.

I have felt that love, lived through that pain and loved again. To love a second time is a definite act of courage. But know that you can't ever experience it again if you hold on to the fear.

In any relationship, there is always a trinity. There are many trinities that will develop from tension and duality. How will you resolve them? You must practice the science in order to come to a resolution.

As the great Frankie Beverly and Maze stated the idea, "Joy and pain, are like sunshine and rain."  Feeling one or the other is the reconciliation of the Trinity. The seed for love is always planted in vulnerability. That's the metaphysical science behind love. It's what you can practice beyond religion.

The Trinity is more than an explanation of the Godhead. It's a universal formula that underlies all existence of the universe. Including our relationships.

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